Table of content
1. One of Four Star Mitzvahs 2. Mordechai’s Gift to Us 3. Shalachmanos, Shall We? 4. “Sending Portions” Explained 5. Two Ready-to-Eat Treats 6. Blessing Misconceptions 7. The Messenger Touch 8. One Basket is Good, More is Better 9. The Why Behind the Wine (and Snacks) 10. A Daytime Delight 11. Fancy or Frugal – It’s Up to You 12. Gratitude in a Gift Bag 13. Tiny Messengers, Big Impact 14. It’s Not Just About the Snacks 15. Don’t Forget the Bigger Picture Wrapping It Up (Literally)
Purim. A day of joy, costumes, and, of course, food. While the Purim feast and megillah reading take center stage, mishloach manot – the tradition of sending gifts of food – quietly steals the show. It’s the mitzvah that fills bellies and hearts alike, spreading unity, gratitude, and the sweet aroma of freshly baked hamantashen . Whether you’re a seasoned Purim pro or a first-time sender, buckle up and dive into 15 must-know facts about this delicious tradition.
1. One of Four Star Mitzvahs
Purim is like a four-course spiritual meal. The menu? Listening to the Megillah, giving gifts to the poor, feasting, and, of course, sending mishloach manot. Each mitzvah contributes to the joyous tapestry of the holiday, but let’s be real – mishloach manot is the tastiest one.
2. Mordechai’s Gift to Us
The idea of mishloach manot comes straight from Mordechai, Purim’s original hero. After the miraculous Purim story unfolded, he declared that gifts of food should be sent to spread joy and unity. And thus, the delicious tradition was born.
3. Shalachmanos, Shall We?
Ashkenazic Jews often call it shalachmanos (with a charming Yiddish twist). Say it however you like; just make sure the treats inside are as sweet as the name sounds!
4. “Sending Portions” Explained
The term mishloach manot literally means “sending portions.” That’s your first clue on how to perform this mitzvah: it’s got to be portions (plural! That means at least two distinct foods).
5. Two Ready-to-Eat Treats
The golden rule of mishloach manot is simple: send at least two ready-to-eat food or drink items (remember the portions from above?). Bonus points if they pair well together – think cookies and milk, or chips and salsa. But raw chicken or unbaked challah? Sorry, that’s a no-go.
6. Blessing Misconceptions
Some people think the two items need to have different blessings, but that’s not true. Whether it’s two cuts of meat or two types of chocolate, you’re good to go. Just make sure they’re distinct enough to count as separate “portions.”
7. The Messenger Touch
Sending mishloach manot through a messenger is highly encouraged. Whether it’s a family member, a friend, or a kid dressed as Queen Esther, involving a third party adds an extra layer of joy and respect. Plus, it’s a chance to feel like royalty sending couriers on Purim errands.
8. In Mishloach Manot, One Basket is Good, More is Better
Technically, you only need to send one mishloach manot package to fulfill the mitzvah. But why stop there? It’s Purim! Bring joy to neighbors, coworkers, and that one friend who always shares their snacks with you.
9. The Why Behind the Wine (and Snacks)
Why do we send mishloach manot? First, it ensures everyone has something tasty for their Purim feast. Second, it’s a tangible way to foster unity and friendship – Haman’s worst nightmare come true.
10. A Daytime Delight
Don’t wait for the Purim afterparty! Mishloach manot is a daytime mitzvah, so get those baskets out while the sun’s shining (or at least before you dig into your feast).
11. Fancy or Frugal – It’s Up to You
Mishloach manot can range from a simple pair of oranges to an elaborate themed basket complete with artisanal hamantashen and imported wine. Whether you’re going big or keeping it low-key, the main thing is the thought behind it.
12. Gratitude in a Gift Bag
Who says mishloach manot can’t multitask? Many people use the occasion to express gratitude to teachers, rabbis, doctors, and others who make a difference in their lives. A little thank-you wrapped in Purim joy? It’s a mitzvah within a mitzvah.
13. Tiny Messengers, Big Impact
In Jewish communities worldwide, Purim turns into a parade of kids delivering mishloach manot. Armed with baskets and costumes, they’re the adorable foot soldiers of this mitzvah. Just don’t forget to reward their efforts with a treat or two!
14. It’s Not Just About the Snacks
While food is the star of mishloach manot, you can include non-food items too. A cute mug, a reusable basket, or even a Purim-themed accessory can elevate your package. Just don’t forget the edible essentials – two portions are non-negotiable!
15. Don’t Forget the Bigger Picture
As Maimonides famously said, it’s better to spend more on gifts to the poor than on extravagant mishloach manot. Purim is all about joy , and there’s no greater joy than uplifting someone in need. Remember: even as we exchange our mishloach manot gifts with friends, our broader goal is to create a holiday where everyone feels included and cared for.
Wrapping It Up (Literally)
Mishloach manot is more than just a fun Purim tradition – it’s a chance to spread joy, strengthen relationships, and share the spirit of the holiday. Whether your package is a Pinterest-worthy masterpiece or a humble collection of sweets, it’s the heart behind the gift that truly counts.
So this Purim, grab some treats, get creative, and make someone’s day a little sweeter!
